August 9, 2006
Raksha Bhandhan

Its been 7 years. 1999 was the last time when I was around to celebrate this festival with my sibling sisters. Not that I am religious or ritual, but I don’t miss an opportunity to participate in anything that symbolizes love and warmth.
The amount of time that goes invested as part of growing together, while learning more from your siblings than your parents, is what makes this day all the more meaningful, at least to me. Almost all virtues that I carry today are undoubtedly what I have subconsciously learnt from my elder sisters. And the privilege to be looked upon as a role model, is bestowed by my younger sister. In many ways they have been the true guiding forces for me to “behave”.
“Raksha Bhandan” or “Rakhi” implies that a brother protects his sister during the times of adversity, but in a deeper sense, I think its their prayers, love and affection that has enabled me to stay away from trouble, else its easy for a hyperactive individual like me to drift away into troubled waters. Call it faith, call it a belief system, even when I have not been around with my sisters, I have always momentarily paused and wondered, is it their protective shield that is still working !




